Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Crappy Birthday to Me

I'll be honest, it's been very hard to celebrate today. Today began in a particularly craptastic fashion, what with flunking a practical driving test after I took leave especially so I could take it. (Don't ask.) A fairly minor mishap in the greater scheme of things, but on top of growing a year older, all alone and far away from all the people I would want to celebrate with... the end result wasn't pretty.

It's so much easier to wallow. But as a wise friend recently told me, the only person who can create joy for me is me... and it's something that I have to work on, as well, for the sake of my sanity. And I figured I'd start by trying to change my perspective - at the very least of this day.

On the upside, I did get a whole lot of Facebook greetings from friends from afar, a few unexpected phone calls, and a pizza and pavlova dinner surprise from my surrogate family in Perth to sort of make up for the disaster that was my birthday. In the light of all that, despite my downward spiral into stress-induced depression, things weren't quite so bad.

It's a common wisdom that one of the most effective ways to get a better perspective on life is to celebrate all the things one should be grateful for. Given my propensity for utter negativity these days, I figured tonight - on the eve of yet another birthday - I would make an effort to celebrate the things that I am grateful for.


Here's my (very random) list!

- Both my parents, alive and reasonably healthy, albeit hundreds of miles away
- A warm and supportive extended family, both here in Aussie and in Manila
- A group of friends in my adopted city that has become my family away from home
- A growing number of godchildren!
- A full-time job that lets me earn a decent living
- Having a decent place to stay for a bargain price!
- Living near the water (something I have always dreamed of doing)
- being reasonably healthy - if not as fit as I was a few months ago
- Being alive.

Yes, I have quite a bit to be grateful for.


6 comments:

rlbates said...

Happy Birthday to you!

Trissa said...

Happy Birthday!! It was fantastic to meet you in Perth (yes one of the highlights of my trip!)... please do come to Sydney so that I can introduce you to my brother!! ha!

dr_clairebear said...

@rlbates: thanks!!!

@trissa: when kaya ako makakakuha ng leave to go?!:P it's funny, i was actually up at sydney twice last year... unfortunately i changed jobs so leave won't be easy. it would have been nice to get restaurant tips from you!

Manggy said...

Hey, that's a pretty awesome list, if you ask me :) Sorry I'd been neglectful - belated happy birthday!! :)

J.A. said...

Hi!
Here's a call for entries to TBR v.2 which I am hosting soon!
http://jaaraf.blogspot.com/2010/06/all-i-needed-to-know-i-learned-in.html
Hope you can send an entry!

Joy Page Manuel said...

I'm glad I stumbled upon your blog, finding a Pinoy blogger who's also far from home. I can totally empathize with your situation, wanting family and other loved ones close to you on your special day. At least we can lament about our woes on blogspot, right? ;-)) Anyway, I'm looking forward to reading more of you! Happy blogging!